Mastering the Art of Difficult Conversations with DEAR MAN
Katherine Degenhardt Katherine Degenhardt

Mastering the Art of Difficult Conversations with DEAR MAN

Difficult conversations are an inevitable part of life, whether they occur in relationships, workplaces, or everyday interactions. Yet, many of us dread them, fearing conflict, rejection, or misunderstanding. The truth is, having a good conversation is an art that requires planning and skill. Effective communication begins with self-acceptance and confidence, enabling us to express ourselves clearly and empathetically.

One practical tool for navigating these challenging moments is DEAR MAN, a skill from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). It offers a structured framework for articulating needs and maintaining composure, even when emotions run high. Let’s explore how to use DEAR MAN and integrate it with other key strategies for productive and meaningful conversations.

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The Perfectionism Trap: Why Good Enough is Better Than Perfect
Katherine Degenhardt Katherine Degenhardt

The Perfectionism Trap: Why Good Enough is Better Than Perfect

Have you ever set impossibly high standards for yourself, only to feel crushed when you don’t meet them? Do you procrastinate because you fear your work won’t be “good enough”? Or maybe you’re constantly worried about how others see you, feeling like you’ll never measure up? If so, you’re not alone. Perfectionism is on the rise, and its toll on mental health is very real.

Inspired by Dr. Thomas Curran’s groundbreaking work on perfectionism, this post explores what perfectionism really is, why it’s increasing, and how we can break free from its grip to lead healthier, more fulfilling lives.

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